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Why My Religion Makes Me Not Support "Religious Freedom"bills

3/31/2015

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Sigh.  One day, I promise I'll return to blogging about fun family stuff, a new musical venture, or why I'm simultaneously jazzed and terrified about a future trip down this.  I love those posts.

But that time, sadly, isn't now.  There are other things occupying my mind this Holy Week, which is not uncommon as a pastor.  What is uncommon - and what concerns me deeply - is the "religious freedom" legislation that is currently on the floor of my home state legislature.  Just a week or so ago, Indiana took the plunge.  My beloved North Carolina is apparently up next.

If you know me, you know I stand in pretty strong opposition to this kind of stuff.  It represents a convoluted understanding of "religious freedom," which I talk about in this previous blog post.  More than that, it's a terrible witness as people of faith.  And because this legislation is being created and pushed by people of faith - people who in no way speak for me - I feel like I have to speak up so folks will at least know not all religious types think and act like this.

Which is why I chose today to share my concerns with my two state representatives in a letter.  Given that one of them was the co-author of the bill, I'm not optimistic about my chances of swaying his vote.  But at least he knows where I stand.

You'll find the letter text below.  Feel free to read, share, and comment if you'd like.  I welcome all comments no matter the opinion, but will delete any that don't contribute in a meaningful way to the conversation.  You know the drill.

We're better than this, folks.  I fervently believe that.  Hopefully this will never come to pass and I can get back to blogging about my future trip down an insane roller coaster twelve miles from my house.


March 31, 2015

The Honorable Dan Bishop
N.C. House of Representatives
300 N. Salisbury Street, Room 607 
Raleigh, NC 27603-5925

Dear Mr. Bishop,

Holy Week is always a busy time for us clergy, with multiple services to prepare for and other elements of the season that bring such conviction and joy to the Lenten journey, as we help our congregations prepare for Easter Sunday and the celebration of the resurrection.

This year, however, I find Holy Week to feel a bit melancholy, as I am well aware that you and your legislative colleagues are preparing to debate HB348, “Religious Freedom Restoration Act” – which, if approved, would permit those who desire so to deny basic goods and services to particular citizens of our state based on their “religious beliefs.”

I find it terribly sad and ironic that such a bill, done in the name of religion (and Christianity in particular) would surface on our house floor on the same week that Christians worldwide celebrate the crucified and risen Christ – a man we believe willingly died for all people.  ALL people.  As the familiar John 3:16 proclaims, “For God so loved the world that he gave his only son…..”  “The world,” by definition, amounts to everyone.  There were no qualifiers attached to this selfless and redemptive act; Jesus did not die for select individuals based on skin color, demographics or sexual orientation.  He died for everyone, period.  The true “religious freedom.”

HB348 is bad public policy, as our friends in the Hoosier state are now finding out.  The sudden shift of cultural acceptance of the LGBT community over the past few years has certainly blindsided many, including those who have long fought to see this equality take place.  Measures like this bill, however, are ill-conceived responses from those who struggle with this change.

Even more so, it is a misguided effort by people of faith in the name of faith.  Based on his track record and actions during this most holy of weeks in which we now find ourselves, it seems pretty clear to me that Jesus himself would not be in support of such efforts.

My Holy Week prayer for you and the other legislators in the Old North State is that you will be moved to vote against this bill if brought to the floor – and, if you are a person of faith, do so not in spite of your faith, but precisely because of it.

Sincerely,
 
Dr. Stephen B. Lindsley, Senior Minister

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A letter to Trinity (and anyone) on Amendment 14-F

3/19/2015

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I've posted things before on the tension between church and culture as it relates to the issue of homosexuality, so this is nothing new. Here is a letter that was shared today with the members of my congregation.  As always, I welcome all comments below, and reserve the right to remove those that do not contribute constructively to the conversation.  Let's keep talking.

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Dear friends, 

Earlier  this week you may have seen on the news, or heard through major news outlets like the New York Times and NPR, about a change in the Presbyterian Church (USA) regarding our denomination’s understanding of marriage.  As your pastor I feel you need to hear directly from me regarding what this change means.

So what happened?
There’s been a change in the language of our Book of Order regarding how we as Presbyterians understand marriage.  The new language was approved at the 221st General Assembly of the PC(USA) last summer.  In order for it to be fully ratified, though, it had to be approved by a majority of the 172 presbyteries in our denomination.  This past Tuesday it received that majority when the Palisades Presbytery became the 86th presbytery in the country to vote in favor of it.  There are still a few more presbyteries to vote (and for the record, our presbytery voted in favor), but with Tuesday’s vote the change is official.

The former language in our Book of Order referred to marriage as a gift of God between “a man and a woman.”  The new language, known as “Amendment 14-F,” will replace the old:

"Marriage is a gift God has given to all humankind for the wellbeing of the entire human family. Marriage involves a unique commitment between two people, traditionally a man and a woman, to love and support each other for the rest of their lives. The sacrificial love that unites the couple sustains them as faithful and responsible members of the church and the wider community."

So what does this mean exactly?
This change means that, in states where same-sex marriages are legal, PC(USA) churches may now perform marriage services for all couples.  It does not, however, force a church to have a wedding of two same-sex persons if the church does not want to.  Nor does it force a minister to conduct a same-sex wedding against their wishes.  It simply allows for the possibility.

What does this mean for Trinity?
As with all weddings in a Presbyterian church, and per our Book of Order, it is ultimately the session’s decision, acting on a recommendation from the Worship Ministry Team, to approve or not approve a wedding request.  Should we have a request for a wedding that would involve two men or two women, our session would consider it with the same standards and protocol as they consider all wedding requests.

So what’s your take on this, Steve?

I’m glad you asked!  The issue of same-sex marriage bears significance for me on both professional and personal levels.  Many of you may know that my cousin, who lives in Charlotte, is gay – in fact, he and his husband were the first same-sex couple officially married in our county back in October, when same-sex marriage was first allowed.  If you want to read a blog post I wrote about this, click HERE.

During my almost eighteen years as a teaching elder in the PC(USA), our denomination has wrestled with issues of sexual identity – the ordination of gays and lesbians and same-sex marriage.  Many people on both sides have been hurt, and some churches have left our denomination.  These are hard issues – but I am proud to be part of a denomination that desires to wrestle with them instead of shoving them to the back-burner.  Meaningful dialogue is important, no matter what side of an issue you might fall on.  Ultimately I feel God's gift of marriage is a gift to be offered to all, and not withheld from some solely based on sexual orientation. 

I appreciate the spirit that Heath Rada and Larissa Kwong Abazia, moderator and vice moderator of the 221st General Assembly, seek to foster in a letter they wrote just yesterday:

"Though we know that this amendment received the necessary majority for approval, we encourage the congregations, presbyteries, and synods of the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.) to continue to be in conversation about marriage and family. We hope that such “up/down” voting does not mark the end, but the continuation of our desire to live in community; a partnership that requires prayer, the study of Scripture, listening to and with one another, and a dedication to partnership in the midst of our diversity of opinion."

I’m still learning about Trinity, but my hunch is that this decision will be met with approval by many, indifference from some, and grief from others.  I want you to know that all of you have a place and a voice at Trinity.  We are bound together by so much more than that which divides us – we are bound together by Jesus Christ.  As pastor I lift up those “ties that bind” in our shared ministry of kingdom-building here on Providence.  If you are grieved by this decision, or if you just have questions, please know that your thoughts and opinions are important to me and my door is always open.  Whether we agree or disagree, you can count on me to listen and always be there for you as your pastor.

Grace and peace,
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Steve Lindsley
March 19, 2015
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    Steve Lindsley

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